What’s it like being an empath?
No matter where you look on the internet or in books, almost every empath will say, that being so is both a blessing and a curse. While I can agree to that sentiment, to a certain degree, for me, being an empath is exhausting. Having the ability to “feel” others’ feelings and/or their energies takes its toll and must be managed in as healthy a way as possible.
In just my day to day life, maintaining an energetic filter, to try to keep my own personal space clear, is a feat in itself but when others’ energies come into contact with mine, yes, even “positive” ones, the filter dial gets turned up a bit.
I’m not entirely sure if I’m what is called an introverted extrovert or an extroverted introvert or neither or both, but what I do know, is it takes time for me to “prepare” myself to be able to leave my home, or to have visitors. Unexpected company or last minute errands do happen, yes, but those instances completely throw me off and I need time to recover afterwards.
When I do any readings or consultations with you, I allow myself to really connect with your energies in order to get to “where” Spirit needs me to go. As they say in poker, “I’m all in.” I do my best to prepare my workspace beforehand, so that I can do what is needed for you and your highest potential without having to be distracted by filter maintenance.
That said, merging with another’s energy is extremely powerful and must be handled with care, for both parties. Imagine turning your stovetop element on to high and leaving it like that for a time and then turning it off. It requires a certain time to cool down, before it’s considered safe to touch. Energy work/being an empath is very similar. A rest period is a necessity after a connection, for both people, honestly.
This is why my appointment availability is so limited. When I connect with you, I’m giving my all to be the open channel that is necessary for Spirit to work through, in order to give you the best of me as possible. Doing so, however, leaves me drained, and as with everyone, I still need to be able to function in life as well, so I give myself enough “down time” after a session, to be able to be there for the next client at the level I need to be.
Could that be considered a blessing and a curse? Perhaps. I can’t say for sure, though, because for me, it just is the way it is, and I work with the energies as best as I can, to be able to be of service to you.